Uh, those are some real good questions, I feel kind of sorry that I don't have any real good answers to give you.

[ She has the good grace to look guilty about it, at least. ]

I don't know a whole lot about this myself -- everything I do know, I got told by the person who was already here. But she said it's something about... having a strong will to change yourself or a really strong vision of what you want to become. If you've got that, you can end up getting pulled in here and becoming a Reflector.